1:1 Mentorship for Sex Workers
You’ve performed sexuality for your clients, your partner, the patriarchy. This space is where you reclaim it.
This 1:1 mentorship is for vulva owning sex workers who are yearning for something more than just surviving the industry. You are ready to deepen into the next iteration of yourself. One where you can process and hold the deepest emotions, desires, and pleasure.
Sex work is obviously so much more than getting naked for a living. It requires mental focus, emotional intelligence, conversation skills, strong intuition. You attune to the energy of your clients, staying “on” so you stay paid. You perform sex and sexuality through the lens of the male gaze, playing into the patriarchy to get the bag.
You swallow your emotions, reactions, and opinions and perform the “dream girl” for your clients. And your nervous system noticed, babe. Over time, it adapted to a job that causes instability in your Root and Sacral Chakras. That bracing not only shows up at work, but in your relationships, sleep, sex life, and your body.
Although it can be annoying and confusing, your body is doing exactly what it was designed to do to protect you. It can be unwound with reverence. Underneath the armor is the next version of you, ready to be witnessed in your authenticity.
“I released shame that had been blocking me from a healthy relationship with my sexuality since childhood... No other form of self-care has allowed me to reach this level of healing and internal alignment.”
— Laura
I see you, babe
✧ You’re a current or former sex worker who’s burnt out — dragging yourself to shifts, calling out because your nervous system is fried, numbing out on your days off.
✧ You’re disconnected from your own desires — not sure what turns you on, separate from what’s profitable.
✧ You avoid touching your own body, except for a quick orgasm or someone else’s pleasure.
✧ Your vulva feels numb, painful, or unfamiliar. You avoid looking at it or touching it.
✧ Sex with a partner feels unembodied — like you’re watching it happen from outside your body.
✧ You stretch, you stay hydrated, and still feel like the movement in your body is blocked — this shows up in your jaw, chest, hips, pelvis.
✧ You’re on the edge of transitioning out of the industry, or you’ve already retired and are ready to take off the armor your body created to protect you.
✧ You're retired and still grieving that previous version of you who made racks in 1 night, ate out without checking the price, and had acrylics refilled every 2 weeks. You don't regret leaving (most of the time). You just didn't know you'd be mourning something you chose to move on from. (BEEN THERE)
The next version of you looks like
✧ Learning how to move the stories and experiences your body is holding onto, through your physical and energetic bodies to regulate your nervous system and alchemize emotional and physical pain.
✧ Getting clear on your desires — separating what's yours from industry narratives that are no longer serving you — and create the safety in your body to speak them.
✧ Becoming curious about your body again — not just through clinical technique, but through pleasure and play.
✧ Knowing your body as yours, not a tool for someone else. Learn anatomy and fascia education to understand the layers of your body. Body literacy = body sovereignty.
✧ Intuitively create daily energetic hygiene and grounding rituals that keep you regulated long after our sessions end.
✧ Becoming intimate with your YES and NO, how they feel in your body, and how to hold them without negotiating.
✧ Healing sister wounds that come from outside of the industry (swerfs, whorephobia from civs) and also within the industry (whorearchy, betrayal, mistrust).
I’m not a therapist who did my thesis about sex workers and decided that I could save the community. I lived the work. As a retired sex worker, I craved the support of a mentor who knew the nuances of the adult industry: the shadow aspects along with the highs of it all. Someone who wouldn’t judge my work, who could hold space for the moments I self abandoned, who understood that being a sex worker didn’t mean I deserved to be assaulted — yet knew that assault is a frequent reality in the industry. Someone who could offer skills to help me do sex work sustainably.
I’ve been in your heels, I get it
I couldn’t find that mentor, so I became her.
After years of my body bracing, avoiding my vulva unless it was for someone else’s pleasure, and feeling deeply disconnected from my pussy, I finally turned inward. I took the time to get to know my body again. With curiosity, consent, and at her own pace. I rebuilt trust with my body.
I know your journey and I’ll meet you exactly where you are.
Investment
8-week 1:1 Mentorship ✧ 8 2-hour sessions ✧ $1,800 paid in full, or 4 payments of $500
You already invest in yourself. Nails, waxes, makeup, lingerie, the toys, the whips, the photographer, the platform fees, the security. You've spent thousands building a profitable business. But what nobody teaches us to budget for is the maintenance of the person underneath the work persona. Your body is your whole business. She showed up for every shift, every set, every client. This is where you pour back into yourself.
Sliding scale available, always.
Priority goes to BIPOC folks, LGBTQ+ hotties, and those navigating chronic illness. Check the Green Bottle to feel out where you land, then email me — no essay required, no proving your struggle. I've been on every rung of that bottle myself.
All packages are a full commitment to yourself.
Payment plans spread the cost, they don't make it optional. Sessions are non-refundable, including no-shows and late cancels, because your spot on my calendar is held for you alone. I can't guarantee outcomes, but I can guarantee my full presence, my lived experience, and every tool I have. The transformation is co-created. Come as you are, I'll guide you.
Disclaimer: This mentorship is coaching and somatic education. It works beautifully alongside therapy, pelvic PT, or medical care. It doesn't replace them.
FAQ
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All sessions are held virtually over Zoom, with encryption enabled and recording available at your discretion. You'll want a strong wifi connection and a private, quiet space with no interruptions.
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Can I book under my work name or an alias?
Yes! Book under your stage name, your government name, or "Mercedes from the night shift" — I truly do not care. I know some of you aren't out, some of you are half-out, and some of you have an ex, a family, or a civ job. Use whatever name feels safe. The only place I need accurate info is the liability waiver.
What shows up on my bank statement?
Your statement will show Heavenly LLC. Nothing that outs you to anyone snooping your transactions. If you need a different payment route for safety reasons, email me and we'll figure it out.
Do I have to be on camera?
Camera is your call, always. Some sessions land deeper with video so I can guide your movement — but you can angle the camera off your body, keep it on your face only, or go audio-only for anything that involves your body or self-bodywork. Nothing explicit is ever on screen, period.
Are sessions recorded?
Never without your explicit request. If you want a recording to revisit your practices, I'll record and send it to you through a secure proton drive. I delete my copy immediately after it’s in the drive. Zoom sessions are encryption enabled.
What happens to what I tell you?
What's shared in our container stays in our container. I don't discuss clients by name, I don't post session content, and every testimonial on this site is shared with written permission — names changed or withheld whenever the client wants. I'm not a therapist or medical provider, so I'm not part of any system that reports, files, or diagnoses. It's just you and me, and it’s nobody else's business.
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I trained in Foundations of Clinical Pelvic Work with Martin Beaudoin and Ashley Rose, 96 hours of in-person study in pelvic anatomy, fascia, and hands-on practice. I spent two years in Caytlyn Dee's somatic work, including Sacred Somatic Rivers and her Foundations program. And I spent 8 months in mentorship with Tejal Prettyman for my own healing.
My work is lived experience. While I was studying this work, I was living it. Those two years are the same two years I resolved 90% of the vulvodynia, pelvic pain, and PTSD symptoms that doctors told me were permanent. Every tool I offer you, I did with my body first. I don't teach anything I haven't lived.
I’m a Sag sun, Cancer moon, Virgo rising. I'm deeply attuned to my intuition and use it alongside the practical skills to guide you <3
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The mentorship is 8 weeks. One 2-hour session per week, 8 sessions total.
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All fees are due in full at booking. If you choose a payment plan, you're committing to the full package price across your installments — stopping payments early doesn't end that commitment. Payments are non-refundable, including for late cancellations or no-shows. I can't guarantee specific outcomes. I can guarantee my full presence and guidance. Your results depend on your own participation. If something feels off with a payment, reach out to me directly first.
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Yes to both! Payment plans are available, and I offer sliding scale with priority given to BIPOC folks, LGBTQ+ individuals, and those experiencing chronic illness. Explore the Green Bottle to find where you are on the scale.